September 6, 2011

Welcome! This Blog's For You

I am the last writer in America to start a blog. I’ve resisted for a variety of reasons. Mainly, because blogs take work. At least good blogs do. And … well, I’ve been working. You know, writing books, the other day job.

I’m also about as low-tech as they come. You should see my cell phone: all you can do with it is phone people. What do I know about blogs?

But a few things began to break down my resistance.

To begin with, I started actually meeting you—the good folks who read my books—and I like you. This startling revelation comes from an introvert who doesn’t normally like people very much. But you, you’re different. You’re smart. You’re funny. You’ve got a sly sense of humor. And, mostly, you care about this world. You ask big questions. You care about your family and friends, and you know there’s got to be something more to life besides the bowl of bran flakes you had this morning.

So I wanted to start a blog where we could talk. I envisioned us hanging out in a rec room together watching TV. We’d talk about deep subjects, about what we don’t know, as much as what we do. We’d talk when the commercials came on. Sheesh, I hate it when people talk when I’m trying to watch TV.

Another big reason for this blog was that the good folks over at Heritage Builders* made me an offer I couldn’t refuse.

“Come syndicate with us,” they said. “We won’t pay you anything, but we’ll give you exposure.”

Exposure—you had me at exposure. An author who has exposure is an author who has everything.

“Uh, how much exposure?” I asked.

“Dozens of hits,” they promised. “Our blog page is just getting started. But stick with us, we’re going to be huge.”

Dozens of hits. Well, Rupert Murdock, look out.

I had one more question.

“You’re sort of a conservative, faith-based organization, aren’t you?” I said. “Nothing against anybody who thinks this way, but a lot of my readers are blatant liberal atheists. And I like them, too. How can I write a blog for you guys and them, as well as everybody in the middle?”

“Find the common ground,” they said.

So, I liked that approach. No matter who you are, no matter what you believe, you’re welcome to read this blog.

We hemmed and hawed about a subject and a title for a blog, and finally some intelligent statistician noted that 58 percent of my current readers are male. This made everyone’s ears perk, because men don’t normally read books, and to have this many men reading mine is a huge marker in today’s publishing arena. Basically, it means I’m an anomaly when it comes to authors. For some reason, the men who care about the same things I write about would rather turn off their video games and open a book for fun. So thank you very much.

I had one last question.

“What about women?”

“What about them?” they asked.

“How can I write a blog titled ‘Men Who Lead Well,’ and not alienate the other important 42 percent of my readership?”

“Figure it out,” they said.

So, there you have it. If you’re a man, this blogs for you. If you’re a woman, your input is also valued. Come here to learn how men think. Or, come here to help set us straight.

The last one’s probably more accurate.

Stay tuned. I’ll be blogging once a week on Wednesdays. There might be more than that, but that’s the agenda from the get go.

Comments? Questions? It’s your turn to say anything below.


* Update 1/2013: Heritage Builders reshuffled their organization and closed their bloggers' page, ending syndication there. No worries, folks. You're here.

34 comments:

Kaylee said...

I'm in the final chapters of Shifty's War. I've been so moved by the book, I felt compelled to find out more about its author. How convenient to find your blog out here waiting for me. I've never participated in a blog. So, this is unchartered territory for me too.

I'm from the 42% group. I'm glad I finally have an opportunity to find out how men think. I've been wondering for awhile now.

Thank you for writing a book that is profound in too many ways to describe.

Kaylee
Austin, Tx.

Marcus said...

Thanks Kaylee ... of all things, this blog has just begun and is actually officially going live tomorrow, 9/7. You are THE VERY FIRST subscriber. Thank you very much.

Thanks also for your kind comments about the book. Best to you--MB

Kaylee said...

What timing and what a privilege to be the first subscriber!

I'm going to go read those last chapters now. Although I really don't want the book to end.

Kaylee

Donna said...

I'm excited about your new blog, Marcus. Congrats! I love how you found common ground: people. From all walks of life - left, right and down the middle. Can't wait to read future posts.

Dianne said...

This looks like a very interesting blog. Greg's my agent too. I think he gives some great advice. I'm proud of you for stepping into the unknown. Of course, that's pretty much what writing is all about..one step at a time.

Kaylee said...

Interesting blog demographics so far, 100% female and 100% from Texas...

Kaylee said...

Make that 66% from Texas...

Marcus said...

Thank you Texas!

Tracy Compton said...

Hi Marcus from another female! I will be printing them off for my dad Buck! Thank you :)

Marcus said...

Thanks Tracy. I always appreciate your support!

Beth K. Vogt said...

Another comment from the female contingent.We've definitely slanted your responses today. What if I promise to have my husband come have a look-see at your blog later today? (And he doesn't do blogs!)
Enjoyed the first post. I'll be back--dragging my husband.

Marcus said...

Beth, Donna, and Dianne ... welcome!

Erica Vetsch said...

Welcome to the blogosphere!

Kevin Sorensen said...

I see I'm the first real guy to sign up via Google friends. I guess that makes me 58%? Well, maybe some others will join in.

Welcome to blogging; I've been at it a while and whether anyone follows or joins or hits me, it is a good discipline. Erica Vetsch put me onto it and onto this site. So, there you go; blame her! :)

http://www.aclutteredmind.org

Marcus said...

Thanks Erica ...

And thank you Kevin. Welcome to the blog!

Rob Stark said...

Ok Marcus.....I'm here now. you can start the soiree, lol!

BTW.....thanks for the mention in Shifty's War! I was blown away about that!!

Marcus said...

Rob! Good to see you here. You're the Man. Thanks for all you do to support the Men of E Co, and particularly Buck Compton. best--MB

Andy Sutherland said...

Dear Marcus

That was a fantastic introduction for your new blog. I really appreciated the insight into your personality. In your words "introvert who doesn’t normally like people very much", makes me feel closer to you and your writing for some strange reason. I think it must be your honesty.

Anyway, as always, best of luck with your new ventures. I still have "Shifty's War" on my bookshelf; I promise I will find time to read it over the winter months. From what I have read, it is an awesome book and I very much look forward to getting to know Shifty.

Regards from Normandy.

Andy Sutherland

Kaylee said...

Those words in the intro particularly appealed to me too...

Marcus said...

Thanks folks. Andy, your comment made me smile.

J.D. said...

Sorry we didn't get to know each other better when I was in Bellingham. Maybe I can correct that now by learning more about you through the blog. Looking forward to reading the blog, the books, etc. Congrats on the start-up!

The Ashenbrenner's said...

How about "Men and Women who lead well" ?

Marcus said...

J.D., thanks for the good word.

Ashenbrenners, good idea on a lot of levels.

Abraham Glazer aglazer@cox.net said...

Marcus,
Heard your interview on Jon Batchelor. You did an excellent job in passionately conveying the message of Shifty's life. I shall be buying the book and your other works.
Your blog title is a message that needs to heard more in an atmosphere clouded with the stain of political correctness. There are important lessons for men and boys today that are contained in knowing about the millions of honorable men like Shifty Powers who followed and led as men. It may be men and women who serve on the wall to protect us, and more women are in harm's way today, but at the point and the edge of the spear are men.
An inane but poignant example of the pervasive quality of this denigration of the role of men was when a petty & arrogant US Senator dressed down Brigadier General Michael Walsh for referring to here as "ma'am"
I look forward to reading more of your work and compliment you on the creativity of using the first person to write a biography.

Marcus said...

Abraham, thanks for the good word.

Yes, I agree. We live in an age where, far too often, men are encouraged to behave badly.

In this blog I hope to encourage the opposite of that--for men to lead well.

habap said...

Marcus, welcome to the blogosphere! I saw your post on Facebook and came here to check it out. I will make sure to include a link over on my blog, as some of my dozens of readers (last month I did get 465 hits!) will already own at least one of your books and assuredly enjoy your blog.

From the 58,
Dave

Lana said...

Hi Marcus: This is a first for me too, I've never participated in a blog before... I also hate it when people talk while I'm trying to watch television. Shifty's War was awesome, it was amazing how you were able to capture his true essence! You wrote it exactly the way he spoke, almost like he was in the room while I read. It was truly a pleasure to read.
Good luck to you Marcus, Lana

Marcus said...

Many thanks Lana.

Linda said...

Hi Marcus, another female checking in...not from the US though but from the old continent across the very big pond.
Looking forward to read your weekly posts!

Linda from the you know who forum :-)

Tobias said...

Hey Marcus,
it's me Tobi your pal from Germany. Wish you all the best with your blog. I'll be reading it every wednesday, or even more often.
take care
T

Marcus said...

Linda, yes I recognize you. Thanks for stopping by!

Tobi--always good to connect. Best to you.

Tobias said...

you know the Tobias who you sent all this signed books to...
Ah Linda, I know you too ;-)

Anonymous said...

Thank you for writing SHIFTY'S WAR....his life parallels my 91 year old uncle who also enjoys hunting and fishing in Appalachian mountains......and we enjoy hearing his true stories about WWII, hunting and fishing... Keep writing! Becky

Henry Huang said...

Marcus - I've read a few articles from your blog and your stuff is helpful and good. I'm a 22 year old beginning to put life together and some of the things you blog about are very insightful and practical so I can digest it through or prepare for it when it comes my way. Thanks a lot!