How many times have you heard that—or a variation of it?
The principle abounds in leadership teaching. To be a truly successful leader, you need to discover your passion and operate only from that grid. Spend your days doing what you’re most interested in. Discover your passion and thrive doing what you do best.
The principle is true if passion is defined as an overall sense of purpose.
But the principle becomes problematic if passion is defined as only aiming for life’s sweet spot.
I don’t know about you, but there have been plenty of times I’ve been called to lead where I’m not doing what I love, and I’m not loving what I’m doing. I’ve been exhausted, frustrated, burned out, angry, or discouraged. I’ve needed to lead from duty, responsibility, will power, or necessity.
Enter a simple principle, one that’s so powerful it trumps the narrower definition of passion. When you lead from this principle, you’re not worried about having bad days, getting your needs met, or always loving what you’re doing.
The principle is willingness.
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| Forrest Guth (1921-2009) and me at the 2008 Easy Co reunion. |
Forrest Guth, one of the original Band of Brothers, embodied this principle after jumping into Holland for Operation Market Garden. Seconds out of the plane, he discovered to his horror that his parachute hadn’t fully inflated. Guth streamed through the sky, flailing. The men had jumped too low to open reserve chutes. Desperately, Guth tried to smooth out his silk. No success.
Guth thudded into the dirt and was knocked out cold. When he came to, his back and leg were paralyzed. Medics hauled him to a cattle barn where he lay for two days until the line moved up. They put him in a jeep, carted him to the rear, and put him on a plane to a hospital in England.
Guth was bedridden for weeks. Gradually, some feeling returned to his leg and back. But his fighting days were over. Doctors gave him the wonderful news that his injuries were sufficient to be discharged from the military. His wounds were his golden ticket home.
Home.
That was Guth’s place of passion. Home meant apple pie and girlfriends, hot food, clean sheets, and Glen Miller on the radio.
Guth could hop the next plane for America.
But—get this—Guth said no.
Of his own volition, he limped out of the hospital to rejoin his unit, just as they were heading into Bastogne, one of the coldest, bloodiest, and most miserable battles of history.
Why?
“I couldn’t leave my friends,” Guth said. “There was more work to be done.”
Some might argue that the battle, not home, was Guth’s true place of passion. He was passionate about serving his buddies in their greatest time of need.
I’ll agree with that.
But—and here’s the core of the point I want to make—when Guth was huddled in a foxhole with his feet frostbitten, his stomach growling, the water in his canteen frozen, and artillery shells exploding all around him blowing his friends to bits, did Guth ever smile and say, “Y’know, I just love this place, and love what I’m doing here.”?
No way.
If we define passion as always loving what we’re doing, then we need to broaden our definition of passion, because success in leadership is certainly not about feeling good all the time.
Another historical leader, St. Paul of Tarsus, put it this way: “Be leaders, not because you must, but because you’re willing.”
That’s what’s needed.
Willingness.
When the battle isn’t over, willingness gets things done.
Question: have you ever been in a place you needed to be, yet it was still difficult? What did you do to go on?


8 comments:
I really thought about what I should comment on this again great blog entry. Thank you very much for it by the way Marcus.
There are several occasions I could name where things has to be done even I don't love them to do. But no one of them seem to be appropriate to post here. Cause they are nothing against the burden Goody had to take.
What my question is, if he would have known what going back to the line means, would he make the same choice again? Sure he knew what war and loosing friends was about, but the Battle of the Bulge was different as any other battle at the wester front of WWII. Seeing your buddies get blown to pieces by artillery is something you can not bear I guess.
yours
T
Tobi, yours is a thoughtful comment, thank you. I appreciate your perspective as well--like, the things you have encountered do not compare to what Guth went through, so you're holding them back.
I wonder at the question you raise. Even though Guth basically missed all of Operation Market Garden, except the jump into Holland, he had already experienced all the horror of Normandy by the time he was wounded. So he knew what battle was all about.
Bastogne, in hindsight, might have been a more difficult battle than Normandy, simply from the perspective of the extreme weather. But Normandy certainly had its share of horrific killing and bloodshed.
So I think Guth knew exactly what he was doing when he walked out of the hospital. Or pretty close to it. He knew he could easily get killed again if he went back to battle, and/or that he would potentially experience much difficulty again.
Your question was a good one--thanks for making me think.
Good question, Tobias. I agree with Marcus. I think Mr. Guth would do it all over again. He wanted to be there with the other men regardless of the circumstances. I think that's what is at the heart of curahee. We stand alone together no matter what.
Any analogies that come to mind definitely pale in comparison to Mr. Guth's harrowing experiences as Tobias points out. But, I'm familiar with the concept of continuing with something that's difficult. I think the drive to keep going stems from a combination of things. Doing the right thing regardless of the obstacles, determination to achieve a goal, the desire to support someone else physically or emotionally are some of the reasons that come to mind.
It reminds me in some ways of wedding vows. For better or worse, in sickness and in health...those promises are ripe with possibilities where it would be much easier to bail out. But, if you honor your vows you stay in there and face it all together.
Thanks for your comment as well, Kaylee.
I hadn't drawn an application to marriage, but now that you've said it, it makes a lot of sense. Yes, there are tons of "heart" moments in a marriage, but tons of "willing" moments too.
Thanks for your good input.
Leadership is less about power and authority and much more about obligation. Even when the job is tough, fullfilling an oath or obligation becomes paramount in true leaders. Mr. Guth would have returned to his unit even if he had known how horrendous it would be. That's what true leaders do!
thank you for answering my question Marcus. And thanks for the kind words Kaylee and Marcus.
You are right, besides the weather Normandy was the same hell as Bastogne was. Maybe my point of view is kind of narrowed because I just talk to vets when I'm in Bastogne and there they are all talking about that place. It's time for me to discover Normandy :-)
I can not imagine what it would be to know you can get killed any second you are on the front line. I don't know if I would get lunatic or if I would be able to swollow it down.
Looking forward to next wednesday!
T
Certainly, ours is a coddled generation. As much as I like to think myself as different, I cannot escape that I have been raised in one of the weathiest and most comfortable societies in human history. Yet now it seems that great challenges are threatening the global social order, and great leaders are needed. Whether I am leading thousands or just those closest to me, will I be a leaders who is willing to sacrifice personal comfort for the good of those around me? Thanks for another challenging and thought-provoking post, Marcus.
Marcus, Thank you.
This is the first time I have been to your web site an dI am quite impressed. I stumbled directly onto this post about willingness and passion, and I am amazed.
The over use of the "do what you love" doctrine has long been a pet peeve of mine for the very reasons you describe. If everyone ONLY did what they loved, there would be a lot of hard work left undone. Learning to love what you do (no matter what is may be) is a good first step, but as you pointed out here, willingness to do what needs to be done is another, perhaps higher, form of passion.
I intend to share this post with my friends and co-workers. Thank you. - Karl Wagoner
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