True, this country makes its share of mistakes. But, in spite
of our collective shortcomings, there is still much to admire in this country. We
Americans can—and should—hold our heads high.
This endorsement comes from a foreigner, actually. I grew up
in British Columbia, came to America when I was 17, and have chosen to live here
for the 27 years since. It felt mighty strange for me as a freshman in college
to register for the American draft. When I first heard students saying the Pledge
of Allegiance, I didn’t know the words.
I’ve grown to admire this country deeply though, and today it
feels like home. Perhaps, because I’m still a relative newcomer, I’m permitted
to tell a few stories that may counter some of the anti-American sentiment that
at times shows up among our colleagues, acquaintances, and sometimes even
ourselves.
Hopefully these stories cool the heat, offer perspective,
and invite discussion. Let me tell just two.
Story one:
A while back I was talking
with some Canadians friends. Good guys, yet both had adopted an arm’s
length perspective about America. We were bullies, they said. Or at least the
rest of the world looked at the U.S. that way.
Perhaps, I said. But hostilities exist, so how does North
America collectively meet them? Consider that Canada itself is a country rich
in natural resources—timber, oil, fishing, and minerals.
Plenty of other countries (or the militant extremists within
their countries) want what Canadians have, and not all of those other countries
are on friendly terms with the Great White North. What’s to prevent any of
those rogue countries from marching into Canada and taking charge?
Nothing against the Canadian military, but it’s necessarily
small by comparison. The larger America military is simultaneously protecting Canada’s
interests too. It puts a person in a difficult position to both criticize
something and benefit from it at the same time.
And other countries besides Canada fall into this same boat.
Some may like the sound of this, and some may not, but most of the free world benefits
either directly or indirectly from the umbrella of protection offered by the
American military.
“People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because
rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf,” wrote George Orwell.
That’s what I tried to communicate to my friends. Don’t kick
over the ladder you stand on. When I lived in Canada, I, too, benefited from
the protection of the United States. That instills gratitude in me, not
derision.
Story two:
On a recent taxi ride
from a hotel to the Dallas airport, I struck up a conversation with the
driver. He was wrinkled and gray-haired and told me how he had lived in
Ethiopia as younger man. He loved his country of origin, but the government
there had squashed him and his family, and he was forced to flee.
During the asylum process, he was given the choice to live anywhere
in the world. He chose the U.S.A.
I asked what he thought of his decision today.
“I’ve never regretted it,” he said. “Not for a moment. My
children grew up well in America. My daughter became a nurse. My son an
architect. My wife and I have always had a clean place to live, a car, and
enough food on our table. It sure wasn’t like that in our home country.”
I love that story. Versions of it can be found in every
state in the union. We were all foreigners once, and either we or our ancestors
came to this country looking for a better life.
Years ago, Thomas
Jefferson had this crazy idea that all men are created equal. Each person has
the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
That’s what this country is all about at its core—the idea
that all people are free to make something of their lives.
Man, that’s a good idea. A great idea, in fact.
Sure, this country has made mistakes, and I hope we never
cease to debate those mistakes vigorously and set those mistakes right whenever
possible.
But, in spite of our collective mistakes, there is still
much to admire in this country.
We Americans can—and should—hold our heads high.
Question: What else is to admire about America?
11 comments:
Marcus - Another great post! What makes America great is all the people who have sought Thomas Jefferson's ideals truly appreciate it and hand it down generation after generation. That is why we have 'rough men willing to do violence on our behalf' and continue to be willing to make the ultimate sacrifice on the alter of freedom.
Many countries benefit by our "protection" of them, especially Canada. But like many people, most countries do not appreciate the benefits accrued from the United States. In order to form a "more perfect union", we need to learn from our mistakes, not brood over them. And I think the USA has done a credible job of learning, evolving and getting better.
Nothing to be ashamed of here! Just be thankful you live here and enjoy the fruits of our freedom.
Good comments, both. Thanks.
Marcus, thanks for your well thought-out comments and gracious words about the country you now call home. I somehow missed that you're a native Canadian. I just returned from Victoria BC and found it to be one of the most beautiful places I've ever visted. Butchart Gardens was stunning!
As a native American, it's always a jolt to hear that other countries believe to some extent that the US is a bully. Or tries to impose its will on other countries ... just because. The places where our military serve are places where part of our hearts reside through those families who have relinquished the presence of their loved one for the benefit of complete strangers. I guess I'm an idealist or just a girl, but I've always pictured our military swooping in to save the day, bringing with them the opportunity for a better life - like the Ethopian taxi driver you mentioned.
Those who love much sacrifice much. You write about war heroes here often. Americans love the freedom given by God and the law of our land, and have sacrificed millions of lives over the years to shine that light of hope around the globe. Call us Americans, but perhaps more appropo would be defending caregivers. Defending those who cannot defend themselves and caring for those that others label and relegate to the sidelines as expendable.
Today, we remember a catastrophic terrorist attack on American soil 11 years ago. Countries from around the world sent help when we needed it most. I hope and pray that the US continues to offer the same with relentless compassion.
Donna, thanks so much. We've been to the Butchart Gardens ourselves, but not for many years now.
Your thoughts are good and well-thought through. Thank you.
unfortunately I haven't been to the stated yet. But this is definitely on the family schedule for the coming years. I admire america for what it and it's children did in WWII to save the worlds freedom. And I'm happy that there are people in america who deserve it to call them friends!
The best friend I have in the States is 88 y.o. and his name is Carmen. Even we've seen each other just ones... I admire him!
T
Thanks Tobi.
Marcus: Very good qustion with 9/11 just 3 days ago. My frustration is the gangs and violence around our nation who do not appreciate what men and women sacrificed for their freedom plus lack of respect for the propery of many individuals. I just finished reading George Washngton and 1776 to appreciate the many difficulties that the early settlers experienced including years of war with the British to form this United States of America. My first 10 years was spent during the depression and WW II. I read books to appreciate what the men and women of this war plus the future battles in the 20th century mean for our freedom. What other country would provide a young man from a Illinois city to work during college and become a teacher/counselor for 52 years. I am currently a Veterans Counselor for a community college in California.....Part Time. I also have a great wife and am very fortunate.
Gary
Gary, very good thoughts, particularly considering what's been happening in the mid east these last few days. All best to you--MB
I came to the US 6 years ago from India. It was a big decision. I do not regret my decision even a bit. This land has helped me discover myself like never before. I appreciate it! A lot of Americans have inspired me. What inspired me the most were the stories such as those you mentioned. I know some cultures, countries do not appreciate America. I say Americans should do what they do best, inspire the world and kick some butt!
Thanks Sid.
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