October 9, 2012

When Ed Tipper Came Home From War ( ... and what's important about that for today)

Carentan crawled with Nazis.

After the Allied invasion on D-Day, the enemy was fighting hard to keep their clutches on the cities they had stolen.

PFC Ed Tipper’s job was to go street by street in the strategic occupied French town and clear houses. That meant throwing a grenade through a doorway or window, rushing in, and ferreting out the enemy. Civilians had long since left the area.

At the very first house, on the very first doorstep, Tipper was poised on the front stoop when a rogue mortar shell whistled in and exploded. The blast knocked him back in a fury of dirt and broken brick building.

Tipper felt no pain immediately, he said in a recent interview with me, although his right eye was destroyed, and both legs were broken.

Remarkably, Tipper, a paratrooper with E Co., 506 PIR, 101st, the elite unit that eventually became known as the Band of Brothers, stayed standing and didn’t drop his weapon. His good friend, Joe Liebgott, sprinted over and helped him sit.

“I reached up,” Tipper said. “My helmet had been blown off. My head felt like a watermelon, swollen and mushy, and blood was everywhere. I was in shock, and my muscles had all tensed—that’s the reason I was still able to still stand.”

With mortar fire still pounding the street, Liebgott and Lt. Harry Welsh carried Tipper a block and a half to an aid station. Tipper was evacuated to England and eventually the States. His fighting days were over.

For months, Tipper was in bad shape, but eventually his broken legs knitted back together. The Army fitted Tipper with an artificial eye. In 1945, Tipper was pronounced well and discharged from the military.

But maybe he wasn’t completely well. Inside, for a while, he may have teetered. As a returning vet, Tipper faced choices. He could have become bitter and dropped out, he admitted, but instead he chose to go the other direction, and certain acts of others helped him do that.

Despite battling reoccurring nightmares, post-traumatic stress, and the limitations caused by his wounds, Tipper went on to lead a highly productive life. He returned to university, earned his undergraduate degree, credentials, and master’s degree, and became a high school teacher.

He pursued his career with vigor and won awards, including a year-long fellowship study at UC Berkley where he temporarily became a member of the university’s faculty. Ever industrious, he bought a small apartment building as an investment and ran it on the side. He enjoyed hobbies including travelling and snow skiing. Later in life he married and fathered one daughter, Kerry, an attorney today.

What caused Tipper to flourish?

Certainly his own drive to succeed. His own smarts, positive outlook, and persistence.

Yet Tipper also factored in the support he received from a grateful nation. Small gestures had a way of adding up to become part of the overall structure that undergirded his success, he said.

Here’s the part of Tipper’s story I never tire of hearing.

When Tipper first got out of the Army, he walked with a cane and wore an eye patch. He remembers how everybody wanted to do everything possible to show support for the veterans returning home.

“If I ate at a restaurant,” Tipper said, “when I went to the cashier, there was never a bill. Or the waitress motioned with her head and said, ‘A gentleman over at that table has paid.’ Of course I was home almost a year ahead of everybody else. But that sort of thing happened to me a lot.”

That image is what I want to burn into the collective brain of North America today—and of people from every other nation that has seen their sons and daughters fighting the global war against terror. Let that image motivate us to gratitude and self-sacrifice. And let it help collectively heal and restore.

If we see a veteran in a restaurant, let’s pay his bill.

If we see a veteran flying standby, needing a seat in an airplane, let’s give him ours.

May we—as countries and as individuals—do everything we can to show support to our returning troops.

As Ed Tipper’s story shows, even a small gesture of kindness can be important to the transitioning process.
 

Question: What other ways can we say thanks?

 

 

9 comments:

Yuri said...

I love this story. When I first read the book of Band of Brothers in 1992, I was already impressed by the actions of these men. When I watched the TV show, the Tipper scene described here made a huge impression on me. Thanks to you and your books Marcus, we know what happened to Tipper after that life changing event. I do not live in the USA, and I don't "run into" a lot of veterans. Whenever I do see one, I shake his hand and thank him for my freedom. In 2002 I first became interested in the Battle of the Hurtgen Forest, and through this research, in the 9th Infantry Division. I wanted to make a personal tribute in the form of a website, and even started to write a book about the events of this often overlooked battle and often overlooked Division. It is my way of saying thank you to these men. It's the least I can do. I use every free minute I have to work on these projects. I write many letters to the veterans, and they always have many thank you's in them. The Greatest Generation is leaving us very fast, and we should grab each moment to let these men know how thankful we are. Every morning I wake up, and I honestly think about the men and what they have done for me, so I can live in freedom. I don't think that saying "thank you" to these men is the only way to thank them. We have some sort of obligation to live our lives the best we can, in peace and in kindness. The price for being able to do this has been very high. For living my life as I do now, I thank each and every soldier who left their homes, families, loved ones, work and dreams behind to fight in foreign countries so we can be free.

Marcus said...

Such a good comment, Yuri. Thanks. You've got it exactly.

Hank said...

A number of years ago, I went to the theater and watched the movie "Blackhawk Down" with my wife. As we drove away, my wife started talking about the movie and asking me questions about some detail in teh movie. I just put my hadn on her knee and said quietly, "Give me a minute, sweetie." And then I started to cry. I was so moved by not only the heroism displayed in those soldiers, but by the sacrificial love exhibited by them for their brothers.

A short time after that, we took a vacation to Disneyland with our daughters, and as my oldest and I stood in line for a ride, I noticed a veteran behind me. I wanted to turn around and give the guy a hug. My stupid pride or shyness (or whatever you want to call it) kept me from doing it...and I've regretted that for years.

Your article is such a great reminder, Marcus. Since that day, I've often randomly thanked soldiers for their service but I love your practical idea for blessing a soldier. Thanks.

Marcus said...

Hank, thanks so much for your comment.

You raise a great question ... what do we practially do with our feelings of gratitude?

I'm glad you're wrestling with that question.

Kaylee said...

Ever since I read Shifty's War, I keep an eye out for WWII vets everywhere. If I spot one,I go up to them and thank them for their service. Initially I felt a bit awkward because I wasn't sure how to approach them and I didn't want to bother them. But, they are always so gracious and often have a funny anecdote or two. I always walk away feeling so glad that I approached them.

Last year before Veteran's Day I called up a nearby senior living center to see if there were any veterans there and if so, if I could bring them something for Veteran's Day. I ended up attending a special Veteran's Day ceremony there with my daughter and bringing homemade chocolate chip cookies, the coordinator said that was their favorite. I was thrilled to find there were about 10 WWII veterans there. I was also shocked to see only one or two family members in attendance. I handed out cookies to the veterans after the ceremony and found the whole experience quite moving.

There may not be many WWII veterans left. But, based on my experience I suspect there are still many in nursing homes who aren't getting the recognition they deserve.

There's no way to adequately thank these heroes. But, you never know if a kind word, a token of appreciation or simply a smile will at least make their day better.

MB said...

Kaylee, so wonderful. Thanks for your comment.

gary sedgwick said...

Marcus: Another excellent article regarding one of our Veterans. Lemoore High School has one of the best Patriotic Concerts in the nation and my wife and I have not missed one for 18 years. The director usually invites at least 10 Veterans and they sit in folding chairs on the floor to easiy see the events and are introduced. I personally thank Vets when I see them in stores or any place we are visiting. My wife totally understands. I remember a Vietnam Vet who almost cried when I thanked him while we were both on a tour and I informed him that I was glad that he was wearing his Vietnam Vet shirt and hat. I have counseled many dependents over the years at LHS as Lemoore Naval Air Base is 10 miles from the city. Fresno has probably the largest Veterans Day Parade in the nation with a very large crowd. I cannot wait until your next book is released. Thanks for your interesting blog.

Gary

MB said...

Gary, thanks so much. Yes, I have encountered similar ... what is it? ... almost surprise from Vietnam vets, to be thanked still.

Tobias (GER) said...

and again very nice blog entry. Tank you so much for that. I agree to Yuri 100%. When he is writing a blog feedback I don't feel that I can add more to it. Guess that is what makes him an author.
As I'm not living in the US either, I'm not in contact with allied veretans often. Sure there are a couple of german veretans here, but you are not able to make them out. Cause one one of them is wearing any militaria stuff anymore. They are just old people. And there is not really much to thank them for, cause the faught for the wrong side. But As I know some of them didn't had the choice really.
When I do see an allied veteran I shake his and and thank him for the service and the sacrifices he made to free the world from the Nazis. I'm very happy to say that to some veterans, or one specially I have contact almost every week over email or phone. We speak about anything which comes to our mind.
I do mail out letters ones in a while to veterans when I'm able to find out his address.
The story about Ed is touching me deeply. Sure I can very well remember seeing it the BoB series, but I din't know that it happened right that. Thank you so much for the backround info here Marcus.

off to the next blog entry

T